DATING TIPS FOR SPOTTING" MR RIGHT"

  Girls, how many times have you been in a relationship with a guy who you thought was the perfect man? How can you tell if the man you’re dating is Mr Right, or Mr Right now? It may be too early to tell if you’ve only just started dating, but there are a few promising signs you should watch out for nevertheless. Here are dating tips to help you decide if you’re on the path to true love:


STEPS

You like him more each day.

You laugh when you think about him.

You really like him despite his flaws.

You want to be with him always.

 

You are physically attracted to each other.

 

 So here are a few tips on how to recognize the frogs "before" you actually kiss them.

 

Know what you're looking for in a future husband and don't settle because he seems "okay."

Don't stick around with a guy who is manipulative and controlling

Examine his relationship with his mother

Beware of rushing into a relationship

Don't rush into sex

Recognize disrespect as a warning

TIPS

If a guy suddenly stops calling as much as he did and stops fussing over you or wanting to go out, he has lost interest. Don't waste your time crying over spilled milk or trying to reason him back into the feeling the way he once did. Call and let him know you've moved on but most of all be strong and resolute. Show no weakness, you can cry it off later when he can't see or hear.

Remember it's important to know who you are before you decide to look for Mr. Right. If you find that you're kissing far too many frogs, take a break and spend sometime putting yourself into focus. A breakup is rarely one person's fault, but sometimes it's good to think back on what you did wrong to find out how you can do better in the future.

Think about all the times he made you cry in comparison to how he made you laugh. Did you really forget about how he hit you, cheated on you, betrayed you, than abandoned you? Think about it, and that gives you a view of what your future would have been with him.

Everyone out there has a soul mate and there's someone who will love you unconditionally. Be patient and love will come from some unexpected place when you least expect it to.

Remember men and women think differently, and relationships call for compromise. There's an important distinction, however, between compromising on the details of a relationship, like whether to have pizza or Chinese food, and compromising your values and beliefs. Pizza is one thing, your faith, integrity, and values are another.

When you decide to break it off with a guy, be humane and tactful. Even if you think he's a loser, don't tell him that. Say that you aren't ready for a committed relationship, or you don't think it's a good fit. Remember, what you do comes back to you and don't be harsh. You don't have to give a dissertation on it, but giving him some reason is better than just breaking it off without explanation.

WARNINGS

If you decide to end it with a guy, do not let him try to stop you or change your mind. It's your decision to make. Watch out for charmers, flatterers and/or sweet-talkers. These are the worst kind or men who prey on women with low-self-esteem by thoughtlessly giving idle compliments.

If the man in question makes threats or gets physically violent, call the police.